Creating a new topic to your username for the whitelist means you have read the following rules. They apply to everyone in the server including the Admins both on the website, and the game server.

Treat every player with respect regardless of how they treat you. If they treat you badly report it to the admins either in game or on he forums. 

Respect includes respecting everyone's work. 

No Wonton destruction of Custom terrain worlds. Meaning respect the the land as you build and create. Don't destroy something just because it is there.

No swearing or  vulgar or sexual language allowed in the Minecraft server, Website, Facebook group, or Discord. Because children play here as well.

Follow these rules and you should have no problems. 

Again Welcome to the Server.